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Anon · 5mo

hi there! i'm the menfess sender you replied to, sorry for reaching you here instead but i hope this message finds you well. just wanna say thank you and i'm very touched for the offer, but i will be frank with you... i'm in a spot where i am afraid to take in new people and new friends. i am not lonely, i have a couple of friends with me that loves me, so please be reassured, but really... it should be different, shouldn't it? i mean, crushes and friends, FWA and just mutuals, they're supposed to be different. that menfess was sent bc i felt lonely on the romantic side, since yes nothing has ever worked for me, multiple times i have been backstabbed by people i had romantic feelings for. that menfess was for me to accept things the way it is and say good bye to the current pain i'm feeling.

i hope you don't think that i don't trust you. maybe i don't yet, but i really appreciate the consideration from the bottom of my heart. you are a good person. i hope what you said is true, someone will come for me someday. thank you for listening to me, sorry for reaching you here instead. take care, stranger <3 much love

Hey! It's okay, like what I said before I don't offer you any FWA invitation. I just afraid, that you might feel lonely or don't have anyone to talk to. But, I'm glad that you have a lot of friends that love you :D

Your feelings are valid! Especially after met many people like that. About crush and friend should be different ... I guess it's my bad sorry, I cannot difference them very well sometimes. However, once again what you feel is valid and normal, and I feel bad about what happened to you. No one deserves that :((

So, I pray for you to will meet more people that are really nice to you. I hope that you will find someone who will love you, as much you love him/her. Amen.

Anytime! Thank you for your bravery to share your thoughts, I really appreciate it. Take care too :D may God always bring you happiness and kindness in life.

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