anoon · 7mo
Mo4n twt are OBSESSED with gender stereotypes and gender roles like why can’t a bbg be a top or why can’t a masc be a bottom I don’t understand the obsession it’s so stupid🤦🏽‍♂️ It kinda reminds me of when straight people ask gay couples who wears the pants in the relationship because they NEED to find “the girl” In the relationship
see my last retro for a more nuanced reply but tldr i dont think it's necessarily that ppl are obsessed but that they don't have a proper understanding of top/bottom, masc/fem, dom/sub, etc etc and end up using them interchangeably and in the most stereotypical way possible and yeah its very frustrating to see </3
