perfect choice of ships anon, because my answers neatly map onto how i see each ship dynamic-wise, on top of my personal relationships with them:

marry baekchen (as the pairing i am forever bound to, for better or for worse, in sickness and in health… who i briefly separated from but returned to as a sign of enduring, ultimate lurvvv—just as they did), fuck subaek (as the pairing i am most intellectually attracted to—which says a LOT for a non-jongdae ship), and kill xingdae (as the pairing i perpetually mourn and reminisce over… where half the appeal is commiserating the tragic, premature loss of what could have been…)