Discourse that blew up there where someone started drama because they felt it was racist that a lot of Nicky/Joe fics had Joe as the top because it was "reinforcing stereotypes about aggressive black men". Like, that person very clearly just wanted bottom Joe and they could have made a bottom Joe week or something but they had to steal the language of racism to try and make a point. Same shit here. Giving flowers isn't exclusive to Wyll, that's generic romantic partner behavior! And like, I could even ctd