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As for me love is actually both a choice and something beyond our control. We might not able to control who we fall in love with, but we need to remember that love requires a lot of actions and commitment. We can choose if this person is worthy of our love, before deepening our love.
Love is a complex emotion that can't be easily explained. It's a feeling that can overwhelm us and take over our thoughts and actions. It's a force that drives us to make choices and sacrifices for the ones we love. Yet, at the same time, love is also something that is beyond our control. So, is love a choice? Yes, in the sense that we choose to open our hearts and let love in. But it's also something beyond our control, something that happens to us without any conscious decision. Love is a beautiful and mysterious combination of choice and fate.
In my view, it's definitely a choice. In my experience, if I let myself dwell with the fling too much, I will end up falling over heal over that certain person. And when I ignore the fling and decided to do something else and decided not to take it seriously, the fling will go away easily. It will give no effect on me bcos I don't let myself to think about it or to act upon it. Thus, love could be controlled if you know how to do it.
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