tbh, before i dated my boyfriend, i only associate myself with a fictional character from a book, charlotte regan. in good and bad way she just feels like... me. :D i felt very seen the moment i met her when i read alone with you in the ether. then came my boyfriend. i still associate myself with her (charlotte regan) but i found more characters to be associated with. my boyfriend told me i remind him with hachi (nana komatsu from nana) and emina nivalis (jakarta sebelum pagi). i think i associate myself with tita (eiffel i’m in love), amy dunne (gone girl), marianne sheridan (normal people) too.