you're sweet!! it's wild to me too, but i have seen discourse like this going on for a long time already so i wasn't toooo surprised by the message... i'm glad you see my answers as graceful and kind but i want you to know i really only answer rude/weird messages when i feel like i have something important to add, so the act of answering in itself then becomes something i do more for me than for these anons :) i have ignored and deleted plenty of rude messages in the past when i felt like there would be nothing of value in sharing them with the world, no matter what i'd say! but in this case i simply felt passionate about this topic and wanted to state my thoughts in a way that would hopefully be clear and understandable for as many people as possible, in the hopes that they'd then feel free to act in a way they see fit.