there’s also a reason the subfandom with the worst reputation is geto stans(who tend to be gegos also), like let’s bffr. there’s rotten people in the gego community too but the ratio is completely different compared to how insanely many there are of them amongst goges. and then the ones that usually aren’t starting the shit themselves on their side or fanning the flames tend to act like nothing is happening/or trying to pull the “but both sides-“ each time, so NO, goges are distinctly worse on average comparatively.