mmmm i think they just go with the mood honestly, depends on the day and what antics they were up to lol. like if wooyoung was being a brat/a tease and needs to be put in his place or something like that.

i do think that san is more the type to take the lead in the bedroom, like yes he is very “just go with the flow” as a person, but wooyoung’s pleasure is so important to him (his need to take care of wooyoung) that i think he would naturally take the lead between them. in terms of their relationship..pretty equal but i think maybe wooyoung? idk im thinking about things like the tattoo or date ideas, couple activities etc