It's amazing how you can recognize that the word bara is homophobic but not 腐. It's not about whether you agree or not, you're not Japanese or Asian. People called OP white, accused him of pretending to be Japanese, made fun of him for speaking Japanese, and still told him to learn the history of the word when he and other Japanese in the thread said multiple times that they weren’t comfortable with that word and how it is harmful to queer Japanese people. Not to mention how other queer Asians talk on his mentions about their horrible homophobic experiences with fujoshis in their countries. BL sells millions and yet there are no rights for queer people in Japan or Asia. Not to mention that your oomf is mutuals with a guy who calls fujoshis cunts and bitches, it is obvious that she doesn't like you and your friends lol