The whole narc abuse shit is just literal ableism, not only is it generalizing, it also doesnt make sense. If you say you experienced narc abuse youre blaming the abuse on the disorder, NOT on the person who did it, theyll always be able to use their disorder as an excuse rather than taking accountability for being a shit person. You werent abused by the disorder, you were abused by a shit person who happened to have that disorder, yes narcissim may increase their shitty behaviour, but it would only affect the personality they already have, so they already need to be a shit person to begin with. Being a narc on its own wont make you abuse anyone, if youre an abuser and a narc, your abusive behaviour may be affected by your narcissism yes, BUT that doesnt mean EVERY narc is like that. You wouldnt say "autism abuse" simply bc the person that abused you is autistic.

Not to mention the so called narc abuse literally fall under any catagory of abuse that already exists, theres no need to make a new term simply bc the person happened to have that disorder or shows traits of it, itll either fall under emotional, physical,or sexual abuse, etc. its time we stop blaming disorders or traits, and blame the actual person for being fucking shitty