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✚ ｡ Cahaya 𝒞 ₊ · 2mo
(˵ •̀ ᴗ - ˵ ) ask game!
🦇 ✧ One of my current interests
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✚ ｡ Cahaya 𝒞 ₊ · 2mo · Pinned
✚ ｡ Cahaya 𝒞 ₊ · 20d
Info! (˵ •̀ ᴗ - ˵ )
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⟢ About me !
O1. Cahaya or Kasih
O2. he / shi / she
O3. Wasian + indigenous (native indonesian & frisian)
O4. intersex + asd + bpd/npd/hpd
O5. 15 ʸᵒ (jan 16th)
O6. sapphillean, agender tfemmasc
⟢ Interests !
O1. Jujutsu Kaisen
O2. Cult of the lamb
O3. Resident evil
O4. Five nights at freddys
O5. Chainsaw man
O6. Until dawn
⟢ Sites !
O1. https://bundlrs.cc/sixeyed
O2. https://pronouns.cc/@tfemmasc
O3. https://rentry.co/intrusive
O4. https://bundlrs.cc/untildawn
⟢ DNI !
O1. Proshippers
O2. Bigots
O3. basic DNI
You can ask me anything you'd like!
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✚ ｡ Cahaya 𝒞 ₊ · 6d · Pinned
✚ Anon ! · 10h
i don't mean this in a rude way at all, just a question, but is english your first language? there are a lot of run-on sentences in that intersex rentry you made and it could really benefit from more commas and/or being broken up into more sentences :)
it’s not my first language, i’m also really bad at knowing when to place commas etc 😣 thank you for letting me know tho!
⠀ ೀ boomftel · 16 answers · 14h
qotd #30
1. If you could would you make ask alls only for asking questions
or
2. wld you rather go on 4chan
is there a gun in any of these options
𐑭 🍊 ｡ gaille ❜ · 19h
hi, i hope you find this interesting... i saw it on my tumblr dash a while ago: https://www.tumblr.com/magidoggie/739129142708158464/a-look-into-shihir-pronouns-and-their-origins
OUT OF ALL PLAVES IT CAME FROM FURRY PORN? 😭
✚ Anon ! · 19h
hi :3🗝️ 🗝️ 🗝️ 🗝️ 🗝️
HI 🗝
✚ Anon ! · 19h
that's great!! ty again :} you're so nice - intersex anon
youre really nice too intersex anon! have a nice day :3
✚ Anon ! · 19h
i think just putting "some intersex ppl are comfortable with being called it, but always ask for boundaries first regardless of whether you're perisex or intersex too". tysm for responding and i feel like i came off as passive-aggressive (i might just being self-concious thou) but i didn't mean too it just made me go !!!! - intersex anon
Alrighty! tysm for the feedback intersex anon, ill add that!! And dw i didnt think you came off as PA, im always open for feedback as theres always room for improvement and as an intersex person yourself your voice deserves to be heard!!
✚ Anon ! · 19h
heyyy i read thru your rentry and i just want to lyk that some intersex people (me. im me) like the term hermaphrodite and use it proudly and allow others to call them such. as a baseline it's great to mention not every intersex person likes it (or even fits the label) but this is like the "queer is a slur!" vs. "queer is a label" thing. i just feel like there should be a foot note or something. otherwise great rentry :] /gen
I understand dw! I use the term hermaphrodite for myself! Im not sure if i should add that only intersex ppl can use it for other intersex people if said intersex person is comfy with it or if perisex people can too (if said intersex person is comfy) as its still considered a slur... which one would be better?
♡ · 9 answers · 19h
Oomf @wasian made a intersex info rentry. Check it out :-)
https://rentry.co/intersexisminfo
teehee
HUH
✚ ｡ Cahaya 𝒞 ₊ · 20d
Info! (˵ •̀ ᴗ - ˵ )
✦ . ⁺ . ✦ . ⁺ . ✦
⟢ About me !
O1. Cahaya or Kasih
O2. he / shi / she
O3. Wasian + indigenous (native indonesian & frisian)
O4. intersex + asd + bpd/npd/hpd
O5. 15 ʸᵒ (jan 16th)
O6. sapphillean, agender tfemmasc
⟢ Interests !
O1. Jujutsu Kaisen
O2. Cult of the lamb
O3. Resident evil
O4. Five nights at freddys
O5. Chainsaw man
O6. Until dawn
⟢ Sites !
O1. https://bundlrs.cc/sixeyed
O2. https://pronouns.cc/@tfemmasc
O3. https://rentry.co/intrusive
O4. https://bundlrs.cc/untildawn
⟢ DNI !
O1. Proshippers
O2. Bigots
O3. basic DNI
You can ask me anything you'd like!
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✚ ｡ Cahaya 𝒞 ₊ · 6d · Pinned
♡ · 13 answers · 7d
Misandry is just a term made by men to make them look like they're victims while they are the oppressors.
Misogyny was a very common thing, and still is, while misandry is made just to make women look bad for fighting for their rights and turning the positions around. And transmen experience transandrophobia, not 'transmisandry', because misandry is a term created by cis men as a way to make themselves feel more oppressed, by claiming transmisandry exists youre saying misandry exists, because it would be a mix of transphobia and misandry, like how transmisogyny is a mix of transphobia and misogyny.
While we are at it, transmen also do not experience transmisogyny.
People need to realise how oppression works, by saying misandry exists youre implying misogyny does not. As oppression means having power or authority over someone, if women are able to oppress men (their oppressors) back, then women were never oppressed in the first place bc you cannot oppress someone that holds power and authority over you back. They can experience prejudice, but thats something individually, misogyny etc. is something systemtic, so misandry would have to be systematic oppression too, and i think we can all agree men are not oppressed globally for being men.
♡ · 6 answers · 13d
user @wasian also known as @sapphic is EXTREMELY homophobic ://// here's proof!!!!!!!
https://file.garden/Zr5NWGsyfhIXOD_A/obraz_2024-11-08_203512656.png
I ONLY JUST SAW THIS IMSCREMAING?
░ ͠⠀ 𝜗 ᴗ ‸ ᴗ) anya · 4 answers · 15d
do i have any amab oomfs who will fake marry me so i can be a tradwife and not get arrested by trump
the fact that due to trump we need to have more lavender marriages/relationships..
ennis𓈒 // sparrows𓈒 𝜗℘ · 12 answers · 15d
opinion on narc abuse believers? ill delete this soon, feel free to reply on my mailbox on anon if youre embarassed! (i wont expose mine)
The whole narc abuse shit is just literal ableism, not only is it generalizing, it also doesnt make sense. If you say you experienced narc abuse youre blaming the abuse on the disorder, NOT on the person who did it, theyll always be able to use their disorder as an excuse rather than taking accountability for being a shit person. You werent abused by the disorder, you were abused by a shit person who happened to have that disorder, yes narcissim may increase their shitty behaviour, but it would only affect the personality they already have, so they already need to be a shit person to begin with. Being a narc on its own wont make you abuse anyone, if youre an abuser and a narc, your abusive behaviour may be affected by your narcissism yes, BUT that doesnt mean EVERY narc is like that. You wouldnt say "autism abuse" simply bc the person that abused you is autistic.
Not to mention the so called narc abuse literally fall under any catagory of abuse that already exists, theres no need to make a new term simply bc the person happened to have that disorder or shows traits of it, itll either fall under emotional, physical,or sexual abuse, etc. its time we stop blaming disorders or traits, and blame the actual person for being fucking shitty
ᶻz luka . . . 𖦹 · 4 answers · 16d
have you ever met someone with a name that just.. suits them so much its alarming
i hope this is how ppl feel about my name