You can hate/dislike men without invalidating ones that were victims. Like i see people react so disgustingly to videos about men/male SA victims. Them being men does not make them immune to SA "but theyre stronger" you know people can drug you very quickly (drugging ones drink etc), "but why should we care" because you cannot expect people to care that youre a victim if you yourself dont even give a fuck about other victims. Or are you going to tell little boys that it was their fault and that you dont care simply because theyre men? If you gen think this way then you dont gen care about victims