Anonymous · 25d
Mr Wolfy Howl! I think i have a little update. so, he told me he likes me back, a lot, but he thinks us getting into a relationship wouldn't work out bc we live far from each other and that he doesn't wanna lose me or stop talking to me. We'll have a more serious conversation about this today, but im willing to fight for us. also, he wouldn't be able to come see me because he has college, but, i do too, yk :/ i have college and i work here, but im still willing to try it.
i think maybe he's afraid he'll grow too attached to me nd end up hurt by the distance...maybe he thinks it's not worthy? idk, but I'll talk to him about it.
i told him that if I get to see him even if just once, I'd be finally able to move on, but i don't want to move on, and neither he does.
we're both adults, nd i plan on living abroad, of course, with him. but while i can't do that right now, i really think me and him could make this relationship work out...what do you think? am i being too naive for thinking this will work out perfectly and one day we'll be happily living together? :( I've never felt this way for anyone before, he truly won my heart and i love him too much to let go of my feelings for him bc of distance. also, im sorry for my English, it's not my first language:( .🐇
Moving abroad to be with someone is a large step and you'll both want to be on the same page before even considering such a thing. You seem very determined to make it work whereas, from what I've read, he seems a little more reserved and is being a little more mindful of the possible hurdles. If I were in your position, I would wait until I've met him in person as friends before pursuing anything. That way you'll get a better feel of what you could be working towards. I have experience with long distance relationships where we've coupled up online, but when I met them in person, they seemed very different in real life compared to how they acted on the internet, and if you're planning on taking a leap and moving abroad for this person, then you're going to want to really know who you're doing this for. You're also going to want to make sure that he wants this just as much as you do. I don't believe that you're being naive about it, and it's heartwarming to know that you feel so strongly about someone, but it would be worthwhile taking a more realistic approach to the situation to avoid any disappointment and to ensure that it goes smoothly for you both.
