I think it depends bc if you seek something out you’re bound to find it aka masc or fem lesbians, or top bottom, but realistically you’re more likely to meet someone organically rather than through these common “dynamics” so you might see two feminine women in a relationship rather than a butch w a fem blah blah but I definitely find that it’s not so different from het relationships. A lot of lesbians have the expectation that they’ll never get hurt bc it’s a woman they’re with but u couldn’t be more wrong 😭😭 I do find that the relationships I’ve been in with women were more emotionally dependent then with men, but that could also be bc im not bisexual at all anymore LOL