My fav aspect of kiis is that with a little time it’s like they’re mirrors of each other but so vastly different and I think they could get a long really well, but also that if they were to reach that kind of familial relationship and depth it still wouldn’t take away from their rivalry and they’re most likely going to be fighting for number one for the rest of their careers which is so uniquely them that it’s UGHH it’s perfect. I love everything about them bc there’s so much u can do with them and it just doesn’t have a limit they rlly are made for each other and in canon too bc what else is kaiser if not designed and there to be the fire beneath Isagi’s heel. My least favorite aspect is that they can sometimes seem too hostile with each other, which while it’s also my favorite thing about them too (LOL), I also think it’s what people tend to focus on the most and it takes away from the very true fact that they both of them undeniably admire each other’s determination and skills. I also hope they don’t have kaiser backseated, bc I’m looking forward to a potential timeskip and for kis to just be “another rival” despite making the biggest impact on Isagi I would be a little let down

I think it depends bc if you seek something out you’re bound to find it aka masc or fem lesbians, or top bottom, but realistically you’re more likely to meet someone organically rather than through these common “dynamics” so you might see two feminine women in a relationship rather than a butch w a fem blah blah but I definitely find that it’s not so different from het relationships. A lot of lesbians have the expectation that they’ll never get hurt bc it’s a woman they’re with but u couldn’t be more wrong 😭😭 I do find that the relationships I’ve been in with women were more emotionally dependent then with men, but that could also be bc im not bisexual at all anymore LOL

I mean, honestly not to be negative but most people’s first relationships do not end up fruitful for long term. Also, if you had feelings for someone for two years, which died out within only five months, it might’ve been the romanticism of longing/pining that attracted you to begin with, and when those expectations weren’t met, you naturally felt that it was the equivalent of falling “out” of love. I wouldn’t feel bad about it, because in the long run it’s more hurtful and unfair to her for you to pretend to like her which she would eventually realize, and then the split would be messy and most likely more difficult than needed. I would explain to her that you’d like to preserve your friendship if she was comfortable with that (she probs won’t be but sometimes people just need time so don’t take it to heart, just respect it) and if that’s also what you want. Just remember that it’s not your responsibility to maintain her happiness after you’ve broken up, you just have to respect your feelings and hers but don’t give up or sacrifice your happiness to keep her happy. Honestly tho, the way you care about her so much to worry about how she’ll take the breakup sounds a lot like love to me, so it might be worth it to talk to her about it first and figure out why you feel like you’ve lost that spark to begin with. Some people just need to reignite a passion or look at the relationship from a new perspective to realize that their loss of love is more internal than an actual issue with their partner