heres a take had today which is that ftms and mtfs, in gay male spaces, have the ultimate solidarity, because we're both put into the pussyboy/ boywife category
its the inescapable label of the boyfail. one is eternally boyfail for trying to be a boy but having a pussy and teh other is eternally boyfail for wanting to be a girl. and theyre both expected to be the ones getting fucked
trianon is the mascot of both for this exact reason