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Not a question just want to say i could not be more excited abt your next book, i have read Serious Weakness cover to cover 3 mayb 4 times now i forgot and cannot wait for another plunge into the toxic acid bath of your work <3
reading ur stuff feels like entering the dead sea, all the minerals n shit perfecting my osmotic balances of sex and violence and being a disgusting little freak. things i cant get from most interactions or media. i've said it in other messages but again, thanks for staying alive and pushing the filth out publicly
Thanks for introducing me to the word anhedonia. My body and soul and brain and heart have felt as if they're made of stone for most of my life. There are memories of brief flashes of laughter and comfort but my inner most self has always felt like a strange kind of unmoving fullness. I still feel emotions but it's mostly the painful ones. I do aspire to feel the brightness of your writing and feel real love eventually. Idk thanks a lot.
i really feel that. anhedonia has been one of my biggest problems my whole life. if it's never safe to have emotions, the body trains itself out of them. isolation can do the same thing. lack of exposure to the thing that “awakens” you.
i hate that numbness so much–to not even be able to feel sadness is the worst. i’m grateful for pain if it’s the kind where the feeling can pass through and be wrestled with. it took a lot of time and experience to figure out what makes me feel things and i’m still working on it forever.
i hope you find the things/ways of moving that help. love is real and worth fighting toward <3
i bought your ero hazard NNCNT shirt forever ago as soon as they went on sale and i adore it so much but i havent worn it once except in the house because im absolutely terrified of dirtying or damaging it. i love it so much
i'm so pleased that you like it. a xrafstar shirt would only be enhanced by dirt or damage, please don't be afraid to give it character and enjoy it with the fleeting life of insects. but i also understand "collecting precious items", so do whatever makes you most happy, and thank you <3
apologies in advance for infodumping about myself a little bit in your inbox, but i find it necessary to properly express my thanks. i've had a severe fear of vomit and vomiting for almost 20 years at this point, and i don't know that it will ever completely go away (although it's not as bad as it was when i was a teenager and even just eating at all was a disturbing experience where i spent the rest of the day dreading how it would come back out of me).
your work has meant a lot to me in relation to this... i remember before the phobia developed, as a kid, i was fascinated by vomiting and would obsess over any experiences i had with it and talk people's ears off about it. i was grossed out, but also really interested and unafraid. (i guess i do the same obsessing now, only it's colored with fear and physically overwhelming disgust.) i remember when i first read that people have a fetish for vomiting that i was really afraid and disgusted, and i told myself that i didn't get it. but i think i did already understand that there's not that much difference between fetish and fear- that maybe for me, there was a fork in the road in childhood where my fascination could have developed in one way or another.
anyway, the way you write about it, and about vomit-adjacent experiences (any lack of control over the body is vomit-adjacent to me), i can tell that some of the root of why it's so horrifying and difficult to cope with for me is visible to you, which is that feeling of being out of control of one's body, and deeply vulnerable, and turning inside out, and not knowing if it will ever end or if i'll be living in this experience forever and ever... and it can be very sudden, i don't necessarily know when my body might betray me by doing this. you convey that, and the grossness of it, and what i feel is an inherent horror, in a way that somehow feels very tender- maybe just seeing and acknowledging these things is tenderness? but i felt comfort where usually i would feel only fear and discomfort- i was comforted and discomforted simultaneously and that felt even better than just being comforted.
and also i could finally acknowledge the appeal of it as a fetish. and almost wish that i could turn my fear into that fetish. maybe one day i could! probably not. but being able to acknowledge the understanding felt good. anyway, thank you for your art.
also i wanted to ask because i feel like having a phobia of it clouds my vision and prevents me from seeing all the things it can represent to other people, so i have my own ideas but: why does insul puke so much? lmao.
PUKE THOUGHTS:
yes, being turned inside out, it's an eternal fixation for me, and so fun to write about
puking is miserable, esp chain puking
feeling it eat away the face, burning the enamel and the throat, and knowing it will keep happening, even when there’s nothing in the stomach to throw up.
i grew up as a dirty child
who didn’t have the same sanitary affordances or training as others
and i used to fear being unclean during sex
it wasn’t that i minded being dirty around other people, but that i feared they wouldn’t feel the same way
and would judge me for not being porny clean
fortunately there’s lots of really gross people.
when someone interacts enough with an actual body and loves it, not just on a screen, they come to love the complexity hidden behind clothes, the smells and heft of the apparatus responsible for maintaining life. the fragility is what it makes it hot, the trust it takes to share an interface for commensual, and sensual bacteria.
anyone worth keeping around won’t judge you for throwing up.
the last time i puked with a friend, i made out with them kneeling around the toilet.
neurosis happens when fear is allowed to build up like a physical crud in the muscles/brain.
turning fear into arousal is one of the best ways to purge it from the body. doesn’t have to be JORKING IT, just any kind of sublimation, externalizing it the way the act itself, this ask itself, is an externalization.
insul pukes a lot because he sustained injuries where he would realistically do that. these injuries are incredibly common in every type of media but they fail to show the actual effects, because they’re cowards. when you’re choked or concussed, you can get brain damage, vomit, or die days later. these are injuries to very delicate parts of the body that govern the rest. a lot of people don’t recognize these symptoms, partially because of lazy writing that treats brain trauma as a scene transition.
he gets injured so much, i didn’t want to depict it casually, so i linger on his recovery throughout the whole novel. cognitive issues, fatigue, nausea, etc. the fragility of the body is central to Serious Weakness, after all.
oh yeah and it’s really hot
thank you for this ask, it's exactly the kind of thing i appreciate people noticing. good luck with having a body, sounds like you’re on the right path <3
P.S. the new story i wrote for my upcoming book has SOME REALLY SHITTY VOMITING AND VOMIT-ADJACENCY IN IT, hope you enjoy or don’t, whichever is better!
more like faggot therapy
i love your bugs love game (maggot therapy) and am uber excited for it. i was curious after the new update to the codex site about that rapid shifting gif with the changing text and just how many versions there were of it. i keep trying to count them and read all of them but im struggling lmao. am i cursed to this fate forever or would you ever share the stilled versions for my eyeballs
thank you!! i basically finished it this week--we might add one more secret ending and a little more art, but the rest is 1.0 ✌️
here’s how to read moving text.
use the snipping feature on your OS, or a prog like Lightshot. press the screen cap shortcut key. time will freeze. WITNESS ETERNITY
I discovered your work during a Wikipedia deep dive about 6 months ago and immediately fell in love…it feels like it came to me at the exact perfect time. Everything you make is so beautifully disgusting…
I read serious weakness a few weeks after dropping out of university due to adhd and it immediately became one of my favourite books. Very cathartic read…Trianon’s line “I’ll always have to work harder than everyone else. I’m so tired of it. I just want someone else to take care of me.” was the first time I’ve ever seen that feeling depicted anywhere. Also loved the ending. Many other writers probably would have had Trianon kill Insul and run away with Oenone but what you went with was so much more interesting and thematically satisfying…returning to his old life would kill trianon just as much as the aquarium killed that shark (tho maybe a different kind of death)
Anyways thanks for infecting me with your art…I’m excited to keep absorbing it for many more years
here's to dropping out.
when the “right" path takes so much energy…one has to find the natural currents in the actual body one is living in, not the ideal one.
i needed to see a book with that ending
because every time i saw the usual kind, i knew it was about reinstating a world where people like me do not belong.
beautifully disgusting...exactly. thank you for your passion <333 🦈
one of my partners who originally introduced me to serious weakness recently introjected Insul to hurt me. so basically serious weakness got me laid. thanks porp
Sorry, I forgot my question! I mentioned analyzing your website as I'm intrigued by its unique design. I was wondering if you could share some insights into the creative choices behind it?
I found out about you when I was looking for websites to analyze for my UX design class and now I'm your new stalker, can't wait for your bug game! I love Perfect Tense so much and I frequently daydream about him (victim of brainrot)
haha i wouldn't use that terminology as i am indeed the very real thanato-erotic fixation of many unhinged individuals but thank you...from UX design class to the dregs of malarial debasement! life is full of magical little portals...
the first perfect tense game is my current focus and i am finishing up the final scenes! prepare the midden heap of Q? 2024...
i think they should give you a billion dollars and the ability to make a show on nickelodeon, jhonen vasquez style, i want to see ur grubs ooze and leak through the picket fences of the S&P board.
I love that show. never finished as a kid, watching random episodes scavenged off the old net. so we watched all of it this year. so xrafstary n insectile, everyone chugging carbonated feces, the grimy militarized school and disorienting fast food hellscape, so real. the antagonistic misery of being a child that every other show turns into a quirky fantasy.
yesss, adventures of baby xrafstar…would love to make a show that permanently fucked up the psychosexual landscape of the next generation and was immediately canceled
hi ♡ will the story collection you're putting out bring together all chapters of Cunt Toward Enemy ? If not, are you still planning a paperback of the whole thing when it's finished ?
Hey, I've been trying to buy a copy of Perfect Zine but Mixam's site is borked and doesn't let you actually complete checkout, is there anywhere else to buy it?
I love your stuff, LKS is probably my favorite but serious weakness was more effecting, you articulated things I've always felt but could never properly express
Been having dreams about playing a lot of strange games, I had a dream I was playing a new Porpentine game... All I remember was an illustrated face in your art style being presented after a curtain rolling up... It reminded me of mario brothers
i had a dream i was in a really randomly generated roguelike with long compound item names, kind of mundane and sandboxy
and i had another dream i was in a larp called Judge the Void but it was a ripoff called Blob the Void
more games should have face behind curtain!! yes!! and clapping as it is revealed...this will save gaming
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