thsnk you honey for the message and for your words. i don't think i was personally offended by the last message, i didn't really think of it personally or see it as an attack on my characterization of minsung but rather as a problem of rpf as a whole. i'm still working on things, especially characterization, and i'm glad you think there's a variety in it. i...do want to point out that it's kind of reductive to limit the argument against the last message to someone's choice of position dynamics because i don't think that's the issue here at all. and also, you mentioning that i write a certain one more than the other made me curious lmao. and purely out of curiosity, i went to my ao3 works and counted (again, purely because i am a freak about numbers lol) and it was, in fact, a total balance between the two dynamics in my rated E fics. which i thought was funny lmao. which isn't to say there's anything wrong with having a preference, this negates my entire point. you can write whatever dynamic you like or see fitting to the story. the issue i always bring up and the way this relates to the previous message is when someone makes these bedroom dynamics their entire personality, and it becomes very two dimensional. so yeah, i just wanted to point that out that i don't think the issue with the previous message is a certain dynamic or the other (especially not positions imo) but rather an issue with rpf as a package affects how we view the real people.