if you mean on the internet i can’t see how else they could approach but dms? then it would be down to how respectful they are/ what their goal is. ah hmm that’s a tough questions….deen/affection/humour/patience/a strong sense of oneself i guess i dislike men that regurgitate whatever opinions are trendy in their circles and overly value their mates opinions on stuff. not sure if this is detailed enough i think i’d need specific questions to describe my type