secret admirer · 3mo
sorry but some people just want their specific top/bottom position to be tagged properly... notwithstanding the d/s dynamic, people are not shitting their pants cause the bottom is a dom, it's cause they probably went in expecting them to be the top 🤷 plus it helps to filter the tags, so what's the issue
the issue is that it's just not important to me hfjfbenfdgdjs...if the reader is expecting a dom to be a top then that's a whole different conversation on preconceived stereotypes to be had! i just don't write my fics with any sort of concern with who tops or bottoms so if someone is reading my 30k fic and yunho bottoming has them clicking out then my work isn't for them. it's just something arbitrary to me especially when there are important things that Do need to be tagged (which is, you know...what the tag function is for)...maybe if i was a pwp writer i'd have a different stance but my stories and characters have always had more depth than a sex position 🤷🤷
