Like it's always been. You have to take a chance and discover much about yourself as you slowly fall for someone else. The added benefit/difference of modern times is technology. There is a broader sense of selection so many people can be taken for granted or ignored. I'm not a love doctor but I can assure you that the chase is a wild experience. It can move you to do many things . Some foolish, others memorable but all along the way you have an opportunity to discover so much just about you. What you're willing to accept and what isn't worth your time, effort or tears.