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Kale. · 9 answers · 6mo

Guys, how you react if someone said that all this time, you're annoyed them?

I'll ask first and apologize afterwards. Lalu akan menjaga sikap, atau mungkin saya akan jaga jarak setelahnya..

Maksudnya aku nyebelin di mata mereka, kah? Kalau gitu ya I'd say sorry and let them decide mau cut off aku apa nggak, gitu aja kayaknya.

A big question mark would appear right on top of my head. If they're someone dear to me, I'd ask why and apologize if it needed to. I'd be more apathetic if it's just some random guy saying that.

if i'm really that annoying, why do you still keep me around? it'd hurt me a lot knowing that person would rather hurt me first through words instead of immediately cutting me off (let's assume this isn't a close friend)

Sad, but what can i do? Just stay away from them. And go find another person who match my energy. :/

Serigala sedih, kocak. I've ever been there and that's so SAD. Aku pernah jadi uringan uringan! 🐺😞

ah.. im really sorry if that happened to you, ive been there as well. it was something that really hurt me. but not so great advice, all you can do is ask them what is wrong, what things that make them think like that.

sometimes the answer helps us to realize our doings, which parts that doesn't sit right with some people. and it kinda helps us not to mentally bad mouthing ourselves.

again, if this happens to you. i hope you're doing okay!

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