Long winded but much shortened version.
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Merida asked 1 day ago · 11 answers
Do you need to talk about your life or daily basis to others? How does it make you feel?
I'm working on finding ways to chat without it.
I feel comfortable doing that though.
Talking to ourself. But I have met someone who just goes up and asks if they're alright (If there's something wrong). Doesn't make it as silly
In my mind, my mindset has changed. Used to feel unwelcome by everyone, now I don't care if I'm welcome or not. It's nice to feel welcome though.
To answer the question, Sean, Ladama, Inhahe, Penelope, Merida, saturn, Arman and Kate Matsuda. To some extent you. Make me feel welcome. The more I chat, the more I feel welcome by people, basically.
Know yourself, your story and what to bring up. Ready for putting things into practice.
I've went there at my lowest without having any idea of those things. I've also spent a long time not asking for help, so not evening knowing how to do that properly or what it entails. It seems simple but when at our lowest and losing our mind, without having stability of any sort, doing those things can be very difficult.
I would say get ready for what you want to heal and ask for information (I was also really bad at asking questions, or anything from others. What I needed was companionship but felt like I didn't find it. What I did find was having bits of enjoyment from my hobbies and daily living)
LaDamaX asked 3 days ago · 14 answers
Don't touch my…
sanity
LaDamaX asked 4 days ago · 14 answers
Crackers and…?
Avocado? Just the first random thing that came to mind.
LaDamaX asked 4 days ago · 13 answers
When others observe you from afar, what do they see?
No idea. I'd need to talk to them
LaDamaX asked 4 days ago · 11 answers
When’s the last time you “self-cared”? What did you do for yourself?
I just do my hobbies in my free time. Writing, singing, meditation, podcasts, spirituality, reading and sometimes sport, walking, learning languages. That's my self-care and feel better for it.
LaDamaX asked 4 days ago · 10 answers
What part of your appearance do you strive to maintain or spend the most time/money/energy on?
There was a period where I didn't care but now, it's just having 2 showers a day using soap, then using deodorant (I used to not see a point in deodorant, just showers)
With clothes I'm still dressed for comfort but decent looking.
Probably 10 years ago
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Waiting. I'll just find something to do. Patience on the other hand, may be essential to long term benefits, the payout isn't always even though.
rq asked 5 days ago · 10 answers
Does genuine happiness exist or are we all just pretending?
Well, I feel like the closest thing I can get to it is deep interest and dedication. But I think it's possible. I'm just 5 years behind, plus 10 years previous to that. Wrong way and wrong track.
I'm dense, so maybe
Be there for them. Try to have their back. Also, learning to open up more humour
Feels like I never quite got there. Now my emotions are numbed enough that I may never know. Just gotta keep moving forward, and that's all. Maybe someday I'll find out but I doubt it. I just have a few hobbies that can engage me.
thank you. I would agree doing those things seems simple but is actually difficult.