Well... I have a great career, earn a great salary for someone my age, I'm a homeowner, with plenty of money either well invested or there for another day. I've got a lot of interests and hobbies. Plus I'm pretty self-assured in my abilities, well trained (40+ qualifications up to a masters) and really keen to learn more. My health is pretty good and I'm not offensive to look at. I also don't have any of the issues that make most men insecure which is lovely.