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How would you reach someone out whom you didn't talk much recently?
Just be humble and talking about general things or something in common you guys two have. But it depends on each otherās energy, lucky you if itās click but if you didnāt, stop it there.
I just casually said hi and asked how they've been. I might also ask if they have any plans for the weekend.
If enough time passes since you last spoke with them, consider them someone who just drifted away. You usually can feel it when that's the case. If you contact someone who just so happen to have left your life gracefully, it can be a bit like urinating on some of your good memories with that person.
Iāll just reach them out through private message and just talk basically about anything. Or if itās too awkward, I always try to reply to their tweet.
If weāre close enough and we havenāt talk much for some period of times, Iād try my best to reach them out, asking about the life update and everything. But, if we arenāt that close, Iād simply remove them because I donāt want to spend much energy on that.
Usually, it kicks off by asking how theyāre doing and what theyāve been up to, then moves on to casual chat. To be honest, I often feel awkward talking to someone I havenāt spoken to in a while. š
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