Rather than ‘big deal’ as in problem, I always think of this as such…a ‘big’ big deal in my entire journey. I heard it from a friend and I agree with him, the best way to talk to someone is by wanting to get to know them better. Talk to them, ask what they like, ask how’s their day, and idk men, just probably learn a thing or two about them, and remember them. It’s sweet, to know that someone is actually making an effort in talking to you, and not letting you to be talked at. It’s trivial, but not everyone can do that.