I guess her request was pretty hard. I think the guy was inconsiderate at best, or a flaming asshole at worst, depending on exactly how she conveyed her hard request. But I feel kinda bad for the guy (depending), he was just trying to make it fun, he definitely didn't see that reaction coming. But I can understand the bride's reaction too, though I kinda wonder just how in love they were if she's willing to divorce over that. Whatever the case, I think it's a messed up situation and they both lose. Or I guess they might both have won, depending on how the marriage would have been.. lots if not most of them end up going sour, some of them for many years before a divorce if there is one.