Sean ⚡🤖 · 10 answers · 2y

Hey I have a wedding question - A couple split the planning of their wedding between them...the bride only had one hard request - that the groom not rub her face in the cake. At the wedding the groom grabbed her by the back of the head and buried her head in the cake (this was planned, the cake was destroyed and the groom had backup cupcakes ready) the bride wants to divorce or annul the marriage now, thoughts?

She's well within her rights to do that and i support it. Not having your wishes respected especially when the wish is as simple as "don't shove my face in our wedding cake" is blood boiling.

Why did the bride asked that, specifically? Anyways, disrespectful but I wouldn't exactly divorce. Maybe cancel it, not breaking the whole relationship

Honestly I'm a little torn... first thoughts is 'dude, did you not hear what she said!?' and the other part of me thinks its a bit of an over-reaction, especially where there are arrangements in place... but I can see why there would be this feeling of 'he doesn't respect or listen to me' and how that could spiral into ending it. That must have been the most expensive 5 seconds of his life :o

That guy can consider himself lucky to not be shot on spot. Hard requests are hard requests because they have hard consequences. He should have known that.

Can't fault her.

If you're not prepared to respect what your partner says on the wedding day itself, it doesn't bode well for the marriage.

I don't think I'd divorce over it but he'd be grovelling for a good while.

The fact that he straight up ignored her wishes and decided to die on that hill raises some red flags.

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