I wouldn't spend most on the ring, because I think it's vain and selfish of women to want men to spend half a year's salary on their diamond rings. Probably the best thing to spend most of it on would the honeymoon, because that's an actual experience and you want it to be great. If I really wanted to get married and I wasn't sure she'd want to marry me, I might spend most on the proposal...but then, I've never really been that into the idea of marriage. And also, spending a lot on the proposal seems kind of entrapping. And what about the horrors if she doesn't accept.