hihi anon!! i really appreciate your question and respect in asking, i’ll do my best to answer in a good way!! i’ll break down all of my identities separately and then tell you how they interact with each other, i hope that works!! lmk if you need more explanation!
-transmascness: i identify as non binary, but masc leaning. i do not identify as a “woman”, which does somewhat alienate me from c1s lesbian spaces because of the fact i don’t identify as a woman. but as long as i and the important people in my life understand this, i am okay with that. i fall under the “non man” definition of lesbian
-aromantic: i do not seek nor wish to seek romantic relationships, and i don’t feel romantic attraction. to me, my platonic relationships are more important to me. so i do not engage in lesbian relationships romantically ! (my exact identity is “demiromantic”, in the sense that if a romantic relationship happens, then great, but i don’t actively seek it, and can’t form those attractions with people who i’m not close to first)
-asexuality: this one gets a tad more complex, so i do apologise if this doesn’t make sense. i do not feel sexual attraction, unless i have a pre-existing (usually platonic) relationship/bond with that person. for example, im very sexually attracted to two of my friends where we’re in a sexual-based relationship (obviously alongside our existing platonic bond). BUT, i still engage in sex based relationships with other people i’m NOT attracted to. i more so am attracted to the feelings of sex, because these actions feel physically good. this overlaps with my lesbian identity because i only engage in sex based relationships with people who don’t identify as men. i do not enjoy sex based relationships with men, i’ve had too many bad experiences with men to enjoy them. my transmascness affects my relationship with men who are sexually attracted to me because they usually view me as women, which makes me uncomfortable. and i’ve had too many men not respect when i say no. and i just don’t feel good when i engage with men in that regard (it’s not their anatomy)

i hope this helps or explains it? all in all, labels should only serve you in ways that make you feel good. labels only exist to help explain our relationships with others, if you feel boxed in then you needn’t use a label <3

this question is weirdly leading? i’m worried, sure. but a) my dad knows about my account and what i post (he’s blocked, i don’t want him to look at my page LMAO). my best friend knows about my account and what i draw and write (she encourages me). all my closest friends, i’ve made through this account. i don’t associate my irl self with this account. my friends at uni know i do nsfw, and if they have a problem with my dead dove then we’ll cross that bridge when we get to it. some of my irls know abt my dead dove (ive shown one of them my noncon fic xD). you’d be surprised how little people who are mostly offline care about this stuff. like sure they think im odd, but like…im autistic and socially unappealing, im odd no matter what i draw

hihi!! thank you so much!!
for sketching i use the sol brush which is quite popular (https://assets.clip-studio.com/en-us/detail?id=1778145). but basically any semi-opaque round-ish brush works. i like a LITTLE pressure sensitivity but not too much for sketching. but i also change how i sketch sometimes depending on my mood, im a chronic brush-swapper. but my coloured-sketches particularly use that brush for the soft lines tm. another thing i do for Soft Look is lighten my lines and turn them to multiply, and add EXTRA lightness to the skin /lighter parts of the drawing by airbrushing a white over those parts of the lines and turning it to an overlay layer (this does work with darker skin too, you just might have to lower the opacity a tad, it gives all skin a more soft look. which i personally enjoy in my porn art). what’s kinda “”important”” here is making sure its a multiply layer with the lighter parts, it gives my art this almost transparent line look?
for flat colouring i just use bog standard brushes, just anything that’ll apply the colours flat and opaque. i also use bucket tools
for shading i use a custom brush i made. basically the harder you press, the more soft the edges of the brush become, but it has a lot of pressure sensitivity so if you want more crisp shading you just press less hard. i also use a blur brush that responds to pressure sensitivity (any one will do) to kinda soften up some of my shading after too, like especially on thighs/arms/boobs etc. i don’t have my custom brush on the csp asset store, but i’ve seen many similar ones im sure you can tweak to ur preference <33 any sort of cel shading brush should work. you can also use any sort of mapping pen / gpen etc, and just blur the lines at the more soft parts of the drawing, that’s what i used to do

ah, no. a common mistake <3 im non binary in the sense of i don’t identify as a “man” or as a “woman”. but my gender identity leans more towards masculine labels (ie i prefer being called “boy” over “girl”, the fact i use he/him pronoun etc). but i still don’t really identify as a man? i also am using the definition of lesbian that is “non-man who is solely attracted to non-men”, im not using the lesbian definition that is “woman who is solely attracted to women”. i am a non-man who is solely attracted to other non-men. i do not identify as a girl in any way, i am still transmasculine (but not a trans MAN). please do not refer to me in feminine ways, unless its like queer slang lmao. does this make sense? i hope it does xx

hmmm good question anon. i’ll be honest, i don’t read a lot of fics unless they’re reccomended to me or a friend has written it xD
cherry boy by rchimedes / @beastranpo on twitter is great but cherry boy isn’t available to the public rn, so just keep your eyes out for that !
https://archiveofourown.org/works/54474193 fitzpoe…
https://archiveofourown.org/works/53793787 sigpoe
https://archiveofourown.org/works/53422177 fitzpoe :3
https://archiveofourown.org/works/53388700 fitzpoe!
https://archiveofourown.org/users/FugenSweets/pseuds/FugenSweets/bookmarks here’s my bookmarks on ao3, i literally have 200 bsd bookmarks, feel free to filter them !