Loving someone means that you absolutely cannot bear to be without them, I'm a simp for my partner. I'll love them to pieces, I have to make them feel comfortable and safe when they are with me, I want to show everyone that person is mine, I'll flaunt them all the time, everything's going to be about them. The way to make me feel I'm being loved is quite easy, since my love language is Acts Of Service, by doing the same thing I did to them is enough for me.