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SERAPHINA. · 7 answers · 2y

what is your ideal feeling of loving and being loved?

To feel comfort. There are so many feelings that we can feel when we love or are loved by someone, but comfort is the feeling that connects the deepest hearts of the two. It can grow into trusting to each other, feeling safe, even not wanting to lose and much more. That's what I believe in.

when they're aware that both parties feel the same way toward each other. when they feel comfortable, pleased, and nothing but joyful around their better half. it's a simple one and yet a significant thing to have.

When someone truly appreciate me as I am; when they are aware that as a human, I could possibly make mistakes too

According to my experience; love is when a person makes you see things that you didn’t notice earlier. Love is when a person gives a new direction to your life so that it helps you grow. Love is when someone fights for you and stand for you. The beauty of this word love is that it can never be defined, it can only be felt. My words may seem meaningless to you but for those who have loved someone in life, you know what exactly I’m talking about. Yes, that face that comes to your mind when you hear this word. That’s how it feels to love someone. The thought that you can literally give up everything just to see them happy.

Loving someone means that you absolutely cannot bear to be without them, I'm a simp for my partner. I'll love them to pieces, I have to make them feel comfortable and safe when they are with me, I want to show everyone that person is mine, I'll flaunt them all the time, everything's going to be about them. The way to make me feel I'm being loved is quite easy, since my love language is Acts Of Service, by doing the same thing I did to them is enough for me.

I don't have any specific criteria for this actually. But I will feel loved if my partner really appreciates me from any side, and vice versa I will love my partner by respecting him. Besides that also when we already feel safe, comfortable, and loved by our partners.

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