Perhaps, living alongside other people does play a role in shaping our ideal selves. The satisfaction we derive from making others happy can often bring us joy as well. However, it is important to remember that constantly seeking the approval of others is not always necessary. For me, being a good person has always been a personal imperative. It stems not only from societal expectations but also from my religious beliefs and devotion to my God. Striving for balance in all aspects of life is crucial to me; I try not to go overboard in any particular area.

Another aspect of my ideal self is the avoidance of conflicts with others. I yearn for a life filled with tranquility and harmony. Ideally, I want to be perceived as a calm individual, someone who is not burdened by troubles or causing problems for others. However, if people perceive me differently than my intentions, I do not dwell on it excessively. Ultimately, I prioritize self-love above anyone else's opinion.