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Susah banget pertanyaan, Yus? Tapi, kayanya I feel enough with myself ya paling pengennya jadi orang yang gak males terus punya ambisi gitu. Soalnya kayanya hidup gue ambisless banget.
You're right and I do believe that. The ideal self of me would be like someone who always on track at the plans that already made, someone would love to life at the peace place like in the middle of forest or at the seasore so they can heard the grooming of waves everytime they needed to, someone that always be honest and never hesitant to validate their feelings when went through everything happened and someone who always bravely trying something new. Anyway thank you for sharing your thought.
pertanyaannya berat bgt abg but i'll try to answer this soalnya seru. i think it's pretty simple for me, i want to work and gain money. some of the money will be saved for me later when i'm already old, and when i'm already old like i mean being a grandma, i want to live in a quiet place filled with lots of nature's blessing (re : mau punya kebun sendiri yang luas banget) and live with my cats until i grow older and eventually died. i think that defines my ideal self, for now
Of course, I have my own ideal self. And my ideals are so high that I haven't been able to realize them until now. I want to live according to my own rules, what I want, what I love. I want to be a person who can always think positively in any condition, doesn't get emotional quickly especially because of small things, spreads positive energy, doesn't get lost by my own mood, can make good decisions without having to be afraid to start. These are just a few, actually. But I think that's enough to answer. Thank you for asking.
Perhaps, living alongside other people does play a role in shaping our ideal selves. The satisfaction we derive from making others happy can often bring us joy as well. However, it is important to remember that constantly seeking the approval of others is not always necessary. For me, being a good person has always been a personal imperative. It stems not only from societal expectations but also from my religious beliefs and devotion to my God. Striving for balance in all aspects of life is crucial to me; I try not to go overboard in any particular area.
Another aspect of my ideal self is the avoidance of conflicts with others. I yearn for a life filled with tranquility and harmony. Ideally, I want to be perceived as a calm individual, someone who is not burdened by troubles or causing problems for others. However, if people perceive me differently than my intentions, I do not dwell on it excessively. Ultimately, I prioritize self-love above anyone else's opinion.
Thank you for telling me something you’re believing in, but I’m so sorry I can’t be the same boat as you do. There’s no standard for being the person, everyone can do anything if they want to be. The standard just making it limit and for show the expression. I’m sending apologies if I can’t reach your expectations answered, but I enjoyed sharing this and making me know another side! Have a good day abang! 🤗
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