Ugh these questions I STG I am getting a vasectomy ASAP 😛 Anyway I have to stick with my default position - I'd like to think no child I raised would let somebody in that position push up on them like that.. TBH by the time that's happening it's already too late to do anything about it, that has to be instilled from a much earlier age, there's also the possibility that they are closer in age to where it's not 'as' weird, like sometimes a 14 year old will watch a 10 year old, that would be 22 and 18 and I would live with that