Please, in a physically intimate sense? Show up! 😛

OK OK fine, seriously I don't think men and women are THAT different, at least in the broad human sense, everybody has needs and shit, and you please them by learning those needs and making them a priority in your life. That looks different for everybody - like, some dudes need some quiet time in the evening after work...so even if there's something important you need to talk about, don't pounce right away - let the man read his book, or open a beer, or take a shit, I don't know your man geez whatever he does to decompress, get up out of his kool-aid for like an hour and then ready your talk for after