It's hard for me to say who's got more or less confidence than I because I don't really view myself as existing on the confidence spectrum - I do what I want/need to do without fear, so I guess in that sense I'm 'confident' ...for the things I don't engage with it's more lack of desire than lack of confidence. Aaaaanyway to answer as best I can, I would say I gravitate toward people who DO have the desire to engage with things/people - it's for the best that way otherwise I would go feral :-P