Hey
I engage with alcohol differently now after being totally sober from it for two years and having an unhealthy relationship with it before that
EQ better. Idc how smart you are. Nerd shit
AIM was cool, but I guess discord has replaced it. Doesn't have the same charm tho. All that customizable text
I'm Asian-American and was assigned female at birth, presented as a girl/woman for much of my life, so I know ADHD is under diagnosed in people like me. When I sought out assessment from my Hwhite therapist that I trusted, he refused to assess me and instead attributed my neuro obstacles to my "cultural upbringing." I was born and raised in the US and assimilated pretty easily to communities outside my home/family, so idk what dumb racist shit that was. He pulled out his physical copy of the latest DSM and rattled off all the classic symptoms that usually present in young white boys, symptoms that I learned to mask at a young age bc of who I was. So yeah, that's held me back. There are certain things I don't/can't do because my brain dopamine-reward system doesn't work quite right, and I think my health and relationships would really benefit from medication. One of my goals this year is to get a 2nd opinion and an ACTUAL assessment from someone who isn't a dipshit
Aaron asked about 7 hours ago · 3 answers
Even though boundaries should obviously exist, don’t you think on the flip side it’s also weird how quick people are to sexualize family members? Like, for example when people poke fun at Tom Brady for kissing his children on the lips, or when kids smack their moms butt… to me, it’s not sexual 🤷♂️ and those people would be shocked to learn that in many cultures it’s normal for family to shower together
I didn't know that about families showering together, but yeah sometimes it's not that deep
Shit smeared on the stall wall
I think it's cute when people dress their houses up like that. My family never did more than basic xmas lights and a wreath on the door so I enjoy the vibrancy of an elaborate decorating job
Plus: People asking for shit that's way overdue. It brings to light marginalization that's historically been ignored/perpetuated by people in power/people at the intersection of a lot of privilege.
Minus: The constant discourse makes my head swim, because sometimes it's about a battle that doesn't really need to be fought. Struggle olympics
One of my exes painted a sand dollar they picked up from one of our beach trips and gifted it to me for a bday or anniversary, idr
I've seen them look great on men who r confident/comfortable about accessorizing
I couldn't think of an answer until I saw yeet's answer and along that same grain i thought of those super HUGE meal mukbangers. I like to indulge but mukbangers do a little too much sometimes
it's just a ball bro idk
Daniel asked 2 days ago · 12 answers
What does an electron look like in your imagination?
a wobbly wisp
Arthur asked 1 day ago · 15 answers
If I asked you to go to a nightclub with me, would you?
I think we could have a good time
Sunken cost fallacy. There's a lot of ppl in my life unhappy with where they are but they're too afraid to make a change just because they've already put so much time into it
Nikocado Avocado literally needs to be shot