Everybody? Nobody? Who knows? Doesn't it depend on what you're looking to get out of it? I feel like waaaaaaaay too many people get married with little to zero discussion about expectations for the marriage - ya'll gotta sit down and say hey, I'm looking for x.y.z out of this and are you good with giving me that? It's a conversation that needs to happen multiple times as expectations change, but nope people will sit there silent and pissed because some need is not being met that wasn't ever addressed before the marriage