Not blame, because blame carries the implication of right and wrong. There is a bit of genetics with body shape and all, but it's a lot lifestyle...but here's the thing: I don't care about anybody else's lifestyle, and neither should anybody really. If they're happy fat then whatever, be fat. I submit that anybody who shits on and judges fat people should open their lives for examination and judgment, I strongly suspect they will be up to something just as unhealthy if not worse that just can't be seen walking around at the mall. I'm not saying you have to like it or be attracted to it, that part is your business. But making character assumptions based on it is foolish and probably hypocritical