I had this conversation with the last white girl I was serious with, a cancer survivor who had a hysterectomy... She was one of those people, quite intent on a biracial child if we had adopted... It's not as important to me BUT as a practical matter I know I'm getting the Damm cops called on me the second my black ass is seen leaving the park with a little blonde 4 year old... Oh and the age thing I get... The idea of molding a little one into your image is more compelling to most people than having a 14 year old almost your size stroll in one day like 'sup?'