My ideal lover should be the one who trusts me. They should be the one who is able to trust both of us and every step we are going to walk in without leaving to the other side and turn away from the obstacles we will be facing. My lover should be the one who understands not only me but also themselves—even better, knows what they actually want and do not want, knows what they like and dislike, knows what they should do and should not do. My lover should be the one who loves themselves and me equally, knows how to manage their time and energy to both themselves and our relationship. My lover should be the one who does not have any unfinished business with their previous partner, be it problems or even worse; unfinished feelings.