My ideal lover should be the one who trusts me. They should be the one who is able to trust both of us and every step we are going to walk in without leaving to the other side and turn away from the obstacles we will be facing. My lover should be the one who understands not only me but also themselves—even better, knows what they actually want and do not want, knows what they like and dislike, knows what they should do and should not do. My lover should be the one who loves themselves and me equally, knows how to manage their time and energy to both themselves and our relationship. My lover should be the one who does not have any unfinished business with their previous partner, be it problems or even worse; unfinished feelings.

my ideal lover is someone who’s a friend to my soul. loving him would be easy, trusting him takes me nothing, and being loved by him feels just right; i wouldn’t know why. my ideal lover is someone that attracts me; it takes somebody’s virtue, insight, and personality to attract me, so he definitely has it all. my ideal lover is someone who’s head over heels for my existence, it takes him nothing to adore every moves i make, and it naturally makes him grow fonder of everything about me. my ideal lover cares about me like i’m a part of his own body, he would go the long way just to make sure i’m eating right and sleeping well. my ideal lover pursues the wisdom of life that he won’t waste his life without purpose, he must be very wise and has his life all planned; he’s hopeful and he cares for himself.

my ideal lover… cherishes love just the way i do that he sees my worth and make my growth flourish.