Mahesa. · 7 answers · 9mo
What do you think sama orang yang gampang move on? Semisal kalian punya hubungan 5 bulan, dan ex kalian itu cuma butuh seminggu buat move on sedangkan kalian sampe berminggu minggu atau berbulan bulan. Is that normal? I mean, gua selalu cepet move on karena prinsip gua kalo udah selesai yaudah, jangan liat ke belakang, tetep terus liat kedepan. But some of my friends said that was a little bit weird so, what do you guys think? Lemme hear your opinions.
The answer is depends actually. But the anger within other person or their exes are understandable. Sometimes it is easy to move on or looking for someone else when you are the one who hurt a lot in your past relationship—or sometimes you just easy to get rid of everything with no reasons at all. I think that is pretty normal situation. Because we live in a society where things take time and that we should wait for a little while to move along with someone else and that is why we think it is strange sometimes when someone is easily to get rid of their feelings—I mean what about the moments that they used to have with their partners? Then there would come more speculations as someone who is easy to move on is someone who was looking for someone else while they were still in relationship—which I think it is a false accusation. Our feelings is unique, once again. We are not the one who control it, I mean our brain might work too, but the heart work faster and harder.
