Sorry, babe, unlike you, I’m feeling young and healthy. Thank you for worrying about my age though, but aren’t we all using our platforms to speak up our minds? 🥺 Unfortunately, my life has been very exciting and lovely so I have nothing to complain here. Meanwhile here on X, I saw too many hatred for past two months. I’m sure we all have every right to feel uncomfortable. Thank you for still checking up on me! 😍 I thought you’re like gone GONE. It’s good to see people I never cared about, coming back to me.

Mohon maaf lahir batin, ya. Semoga hidupmu cukup menyenangkan biar konsisten buat fokus rl nya daripada ngurusin hidup orang lain dan menebar kebencian 🫶

Hello, my dear. Thank you for giving me such a good question. It seems that you‘ve been watching me for a long time 🥺

How to maintain balance in life? Is it possible? Well, if I’m being honest, it is not easy. Like holding 3 cups with one hand, it is possible but your hand must be shaking. Balanced life ≠ do everything at once. I need to focus on what’s more important for me at the time. 2022 was a very tough year, but I successfully managed it by not stressing about it. Instead, I try to think about the good things I can do while working. I admit that it was HARD, I cried a lot but I keep walking while enjoying what life brings to me. Work slowly but steadily improving. I am no longer searching for perfection, because it’s exhausting. Jadi semisal hari ini aku ada kerjaan dan kuliah barengan, ya aku fokus ke dua itu. Urusan hobby dikesampingin dulu sampai kerjaan selesai, malam sebelum tidur baru catch up lagi. For relationship, if you find a right partner, I’m sure they will understand you. I kinda enjoy kesibukanku baik kuliah dan organisasi, thanks to my man for being supportive since day one. We often do it together so… yes, I consider myself lucky.

I will not give any mainstream advice nor toxic positivity, but here is the thing that you should do in order to live a balanced life: always listen to your body and guts. Take a break, jangan memaksakan diri untuk menyelesaikan semuanya dalam satu waktu. Jangan membandingkan diri kita dengan orang lain. Always set your boundaries. Lower your expectations for people but always be optimistic about yourself. Last but not least, selalu percaya kalau bantuan bakal dateng dengan sendirinya. Do not depend on it, just believe that semua masalah bakal terselesaikan.

Yes, I never missed about the latest fashion, art and Kpop news because that’s my coping mechanism. But truth to be told, I’m not really that ‘up-to-date’. I’m just lucky to have many army + hf twt moots who keep me updated. So every time I have free time to open my Twitter, my tl already gives me what I need to see. If you notice it, I chose to not giving my reviews for Milan Fashion Week collections. I only highlight some brands but not every day like I did for Paris Fashion Week. Priority first, baby!

I apologize for not responding earlier because there was a little trouble with my retrospring. I hope my answer can be useful to you 💗

You know I’m very consistent with my words, right, my dear? I would go with ‘Fairy Godmother’ because you hate the word ‘angel’ㅡin fact, you are not. Lilith is the embodiment of wisdom. I’m forever amazed by your strength, compassion, and consistency. A woman with big heart made of gold and heavenly soul, who tolerates me and holds me near. Unlike the others, you only give sincere and genuine words without expecting anything in return. I’m saying this because after everything good that you’ve done to me, I still cannot give 10 times kindness back to you. Not yet, but if God allows me someday soon, I will. You remind me of good karma, teaching me how to be unbothered while keep on thriving. Who knows that kind yet realistic words could slap me so hard on the face? It’s only Lilith who can do that to me.

Perhaps, I have to start with ‘lucky’. A creative, brave, passionate, independent, and lucky woman. Both of my intuition and gut instinct always worked to protect my inner peace. I always do my best in everything but without luck, my life would be pointless and tedious. I’m very consistent with my goals and always responsible for my actions. To make it balanced, I will add extremely sentimental, emotional, and as hard as rock. I will explain it positively, these traits help me to not easily judge, join the bandwagon, and hold grudge towards anyone. I may not be the prettiest, the smartest, the richest, the kindest woman in the room, but I’m confident enough to say that I’m the luckiest. I can’t thank God and Lady Luck enough for all the good things that happened in my life.

Aretha is still in a progress to be the better version of herself. To have people putting high expectations on her is kind of pressure. Unfortunately I’m no saint, as a human I also make mistakes, but thee Aretha is always open for any advice and constructive criticism. She values honesty, trust, and healthy friendships. Good for her that she is no longer feeling pain and burden, because she forgives everyone and her past. She’s currently focusing on herself and things that make her happy. That’s all that matters for her now 🤍

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First of all. Sender, gue tau siapa lo dan sekedar advice, daripada ngirim di sini mending di DM aja btw terbuka lebar kok gue ada 3 account Twitter, Instagram, WA apa gak cukup?

Second, point ‘main aman’ bener. By not spilling their privacy and chose to not tweeting publicly about them. But my question is, kapan ya gue ikut-ikutan ngehujat temen gue yang kena cancel? WKWKW ini lo kebanyakan bergaul sama orang-orang toxic apa ya? Stop creating fake narratives lah, sayang. Gak bikin lo innocent juga kok dengan balik pointing your finger at me. Serius. Tapi balik lagi, whatever you think about me is not my responsibility. All back to you to judge, toh yang nyaksiin kelakuan gue juga banyak ‘kan? I don’t have to prove anything to you, adik sayang. You can put the blame on me, but my parents didn’t raise me to be such a loser. You said this because you don’t know what happened behind the scene, I completely understand it. Do I have to show the world kalau gue negur temen gue sebelum kena cancel? Enggak, sayang. That’s what makes me different from the rest of you.

Internet, baby. I joined hf twt in 2019 and I’ve never been so lucky to be part of the fam, surrounded by women with exquisite taste. Here, we can learn many things about fashion from history to runways.

I grew up watching Barbie and best chick flicks, it really helps. When I was a kid, my passion for fashion was growing fast because I played Nintendo’s Bratz game. From it, I learned the names of clothes in more difficult way, then I became obsessed to local fashion magazines in middle school. The obsession continues with Vogue and fashion books till now. I never stop learning, I keep reading articles and installed Vogue Runway on my phones. I don’t recommend learning fashion on TikTok, though. YouTube videos are better. I love to watch style analysis videos there.

Wow! I just spilled my secrets. But those are things all you need to know, dear Anonymous. Thank you for asking such a good question. I hope it answers your question. Toodles! 👛💅🏼🎀🧏🏻‍♀️