just use who i was years ago.

Nice try, person from my past

Directly approach my feelings and try to circumvent my mind and then start to implant feelings of regret, sadness and guilt into me.

No thank you, next!

Nice try, bully.

I'm not answering the former question because it's unethical, and I'm not answering the latter question because somebody might take advantage of me. Okay, that's not the real reason, the real reason is that it's pathetic how easy it is to make me feel bad. People even emotionally blackmail me without even realizing it.