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Uhh, where I should start...? I'll go with wishing you a late birthday! It was a year since the last time I send you the last thoughts I think? May all the best wishes will come to you, I dunno when you will saw this message since the retro will shutting down next year. It was a great time for talking with you, longlast for both of us with our partner! I'm still with someone I date last year, hope you so Avery.
thank you for still reaching out to me even when i forget i have this account. before anything else, i kindly ask that you refrain from sending me any more messages going forward. i’ve told my boyfriend about this, and he questioned why you’re still messaging me even though we know you have good intentions. but please, think about it from my boyfriend’s perspective, as well as your own partner’s, wouldn’t they misunderstand your messages? for now, all your messages have been archived for the sake of my relationship with my boyfriend. i’m really sorry, but i ask that you respect my decision on this matter. thank you for everything you’ve done for me, and also for the birthday wishes. i hope good things continue to come your way, and that your relationship with your partner lasts for a long time!
Are you currently having a relationship with someone?
i’m not saying i’m currently having a relationship, but i’ve been close to someone for the last few months, and i have no intention of getting close to anyone else other than him for now ✌🏻
How's life?
it’s been a bit of a rollercoaster lately, but i’m still hanging in there. thank you for asking me anyway. whoever you are, i hope you’re doing good too <3
Do you believe in the power of handwritten love letters?
definitely! handwritten love letters hold weight, your words carry the emotional feeling with the letters and it takes time to sit down then write your thoughts out by hand. i find handwritten letters much personal and meaningful, both to send and receive. it’s undoubtedly a much more intimate yet romantic gesture than simply sending a text or tell
Your current type of future lover?
as long as my future lover is a good person and someone i could have a great conversation with, then i’d be really happy! but if need to be more specific, i want someone who i feel like i can just openly tell them anything without hold back my feelings, who likes to debate over the dumbest things but also some of the smartest things, who would love me for who i am, and importantly who loves to investing our time in each other. the point is, just go back to the first sentence and that’s all
Who's the most intimidate person that you want to talk but at the end you don't brave enough to talk with?
i’m sorry but what context are you talking about? i don't think i have a specific person who intimidates me enough moreover make me afraid to talk to them. however, how intimidating that person is as long as i want to talk to them, i’ll definitely brave to start the conversation :]
What the greatest or unexpected gift that you ever get in your rpw life from your lover?
since i don't have a lover at the moment maybe let’s talk about some gifts from my exes. the first one was probably a captain america lego, i really appreciate how they came up with the idea as they knew i love mcu and being in the captain team. the second one was a book, they made me a book about myself which got me jaw-dropping with a lot of effort they put on it. i’m sure my closest friends know everything about it, as well as i who still keep all of their precious gifts and keep them well. however, the best gift i’ve ever received from them is how our relationship is still settled as good friends until this day 🫡
Have you ever meet the right person but at the wrong time before? And what do you do at that time?
this happened to me for a few times and it was feels terrible. at the end, it just doesn't feel like the right kind of love anymore so i have to let them go. possibly for every time that person crosses my mind, i’ll ache for what could be or what could’ve been. i mourn the memories yet to be made, the conversations yet to be had. BUT while it's saddening that circumstances prevent us from being together, i don't regret the experience. life happens and people move on, so do i. i’m just content with myself now!
Do you want old times back?
if you’re talking as about ‘the person you once were’ then the answer is partly yes and partly no. i feel i’ve changed so much. the younger me was a very different person altogether. i was a spoiled brat who acts without thinking and favorite youngest child of her parents. but now, my current self is a better version. i’m still working at being even better. but now, i feel extremely comfortable under my own skin; super duper confident about myself and bring out many things with my own hands. most importantly, i’ll never let anyone’s presence or absence affect me (again)
honest thoughts on me 👀
if there's one thing that i absolutely adore about you, it's your calming presence. i remember you accompanying me back then when i didn't have anyone to talk to (in space, remember?). you’re the most caring girl ever— others before you always, you could cheer me up at all times. apart from being admirably beautiful, more so because of the attractiveness that you evoke out of you simplicity, you’re one of the best sisters i’ve ever had. i love you so much, kakak ayin!
i personally have always had sleeping problems. i've also tried a number of ways that many people have said, but to be quite frank, sometimes nothing works. however, usually i would listen to songs that soothe my mind or maybe watch something until i get tired and fall asleep by myself
What are your top 3 repeated songs?
well, i believe that these songs should be there in the playlist of almost every music enjoyer. here are some from my playlist that i would repeat like there is not a single day of me without listening to these songs, the list goes as follows: those eyes by new west, happier than ever by astn, and bedroom by jj lin (ft. anne-marie). also i hope you don't mind if i add one more because lately my head has been getting stuck with champagne problems by our queen of vinyl, taylor swift!
If you had to describe yourself as an animal, which one would it be? Give reasons why you chose that animal.
i once did a test on a website about which the animal is representative of me and the result is an owl. i admit the result is pretty accurate with the personality that i have; thorough, detail-oriented, sequential, analytical, and perfectionist. owl mbti stereotype is also for intj and i guess that actually convinced me enough that i’m an owl 🫠
how do you cope with loneliness? 😢
loneliness comes from within, even in the presence of others you can still feel loneliness and it's usually you yourself who let those feelings undermine you. the solution is acceptance, cliché as it sounds but it's not as simple as you think. accept that such a situation can happen as part of many chapters in life then you have to remove your fears that pull you down and make you stay where you are. you need to dust yourself and start moving forward whatever may be the problem. remember! it’s not good to seek happiness outside yourself, they will always end up disappointing you again probably. your life must be worth something, right? find out what that is! just do whatever you can do to make yourself happy. believe me, your life will definitely change for the better ;-)
What's the best zodiac that suits you well booth in romantic and platonically?
this question is quite hard to answer fr, you could say i’m a person who actually wants to try with all the zodiac signs since i haven't had much experience with all of them (jk). but if i must say, i’ll go with virgo for romantically then cancer, leo, and taurus for platonically. safe to say that they always looking for ways to make me feel better and going next level to provide me sweet love & comfort, it perfectly suits with all the traits that exist within myself as a libra
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