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how do you describe yourself as a lover? (follow-up question: what do you seek in a lover? :p)
Aight then, let me answering this one. I am the type of person who love showering all of my love to my beloved one. Apapun itu. As my lovlang, I have Quality Time, Words Of Affirmation, Acts Of Service and the last one is Physical Touch. Aku suka nunjukin semua bentuk kasih sayang aku ke pasangan. I do love to give lots of sweet words, appreciated them. I do love to helps my lover to do whats makes they struggle with. I do love to spend my time with them. Spend all day with beloved one? Ofc aku suka itu. Lakuin hal apapun berdua. Meskipun kadang butuh waktu sendiri, tapi kalau disuruh buat spend time sampai bosen, gas. Aku mungkin bakal keliatan agak kaku (kadang), selain emang udah dari sananua begitu wataknya. Tapi kalah disuruh buat apapun, bakal berusaha buat ngasih itu. Tapi, syaratnya cuman satu. Jangan memaksa aku buat peka tanpa ngasih tau aku. Karena aku tipe yang kaku dan nggak peka. Kalau pengen sesuatu, kasitau. Karena aku nggak bakal paham kalau nggak dikasitau. :DD
Also I would love to feel that I am the luckiest person alive when someone truly appreciate me as who I am and respecting also can understand me, never judgemental, since I'm the person who never got a appreciated from everyone how sad, so.. I really feel alive and loved when someone can appreciate me and can love me as I am. If I can meet someone who can love me like that, I will love him, appreciate him, respect him, give him all of my attention and intention. Everything. I will give him everything I have if he want to do the same thing as me. I just want him to feel happy, safe, lucky, comfortable also the important things that I want him to feel that I love him with all of my heart. Jadi kayak, aku bakal ngasih hal apapun itu yang dibutuhkan dan dipengenin. Even itu mereka nggak minta atau nggak ngasih hal yang sama. Tapi kalau mereka minta dan ngasih hal yang sama. Aku bakal lebih ngasih yang lebih lebih dari yang bisa mereka bayangkan. :DD
Since I’m a guy who is a sucker of Quality Time, it follows the way I romanticize everyone who spare their time to talk to me. I’m the type who spend hours sharing earphone as we busy with each other’s stuff, but keeping up through spotify session until we are done. The feeling of someone being there with you is nice. I’m also the Act of Service kind where I like to do things my Lover ask me to do or simply doing you stuff without you even asking. I like the feeling of being needed and reliable. Taking my lovers out, buying them gifts, or simply spending hours with them will be something I always look for. What I look in my lover is nothing grand but my equals, I want my lovers to be my equals where they saw me as someone they can nag and tug on, and where I can also rest my head on their shoulder sometimes when I need it. Does that make sense?
I'm very sure that I'm the type that will reply immediately even when my lover took an hour or so to text me back and I seek nothing but trust, honesty and appreciation since I'll return more than what they'll give.
Quite that people know, I’m pretty cold and ignorant. But swear I will always love and protect you if I were your lover (Tapi tingkatnya masih di bawah kampus, tugas dan organisasi, jk).
Ah... but won't it be too subjective if I describe myself? I rather not to answer it or are you perhaps willing to do it on behalf of me since I think you have known me—and my terrible love story—pretty well, dear Seraphina? :D I don't seek anything in a lover—specifically. But lately I have been thinking of having someone who has a good sleep schedule to help me fix mine since I think my sleep schedule slowly starts to worsen.
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