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Abil · 6 answers · 2y

what gestures that can be an instant turn off for you?

I wouldn’t say I’m picky, but I might be. Those who recently ended a serious relationship with somebody else yet later profess their love for me irritate me. Even though I appreciate helping individuals with their problems, I won’t be your rebound boyfriend because they were entirely healed at the end of that rebound relationship, whereas I was psychologically wrecked. Aside from that, I find it annoying when people are always on their phones, are almost unbearably quiet, and show little attention. I cannot agree with it, thus I must withdraw. That’s a deal breaker for me.

When I see two people talking to each other, and one of them being excitedly talking about their interest or the things that makes them happy, but then the other one just ignored it and start to change the topic.

In conclusion, being ignored for the things I am fond of, would definitely make me turn off.

unnecessary show off, butting in/cutting off the other party's sentences unprovoked, overall giving bad vibes smh smh.

the one yang ngejelekin hobby aku, terus kayak ga kasih effort yang sesuai sama harapan :D

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